April 28, 2011, 5:26 PM — If you’ve got kids that are teens or tweens (like I do), you know two things for certain: One is that they have a Facebook account. The other is that they’ll do whatever it takes to keep their parents away from it.
Sure, they might friend you. Or they might do as my 14-year-old son did and create a fake Facebook account to fool his parents, while keeping another one for his actual friends. Or as my younger daughter does, and save the juicy conversations for places her parents can’t see, like messages or chat.
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This week CheckPoint Technologies introduced a new software service called ZoneAlarm Social Guard designed to help monitor your kids’ Facebook accounts. Social Guard’s main purpose is to head off cyber-bullying and come-ons from potential predators by alerting you to them in real time, or close to it.
For $2 a month or $20 a year, Social Guard will let you know if strangers suddenly want to befriend your child on Facebook, or if anyone leaves taunting messages on their wall, in comments, or in messages. It will flag suspicious links that could lead to malware and warn you if their account has been hacked or the password changed. It can even alert you if people over a certain age are friending your kids or if your children are sharing information online they shouldn’t, like their home address.
You start by entering your child’s Facebook logon and password into Social Guard, which then installs a Facebook app on their account. In other words, you probably won’t be able to do this on the sly -- you’ll need to know your kids’ log on info, and they’ll be able to see you’ve installed a new app on their page. The idea is to start a dialog with your kids, not to play Big Brother.
(Rule #3 of tweens and teens: They’d rather eat broken glass than start a dialog with you about anything. But I digress.)
Sounds good, right? That’s the theory anyway. In practice, though, Social Guard is very much a 1.0 product, filled with glitches and some pretty big holes. I tried it out with both my personal account and some dummy accounts I created for this purpose.
* Social Guard won’t monitor chat conversations, though Checkpoint Head of Consumer Marketing John Gable says that’s coming in a future version.