January 13, 2012, 11:34 AM —
The easy joke about cellphones, the one that late-show monologue writers and your corniest friends reached for, was that their ringers went off in theaters and restaurants and annoyed everybody. Most of us have since learned how important it is to silence our phones, and how to do so--most phones have a dedicated button for silencing. But now we’re actively choosing to let our always-connected, web-friendly phones interrupt our meals with friends, our work, and our ability to actually notice where we are and what we’re doing.
There are some simple but strong remedies for smartphone addiction, beyond staging a scene from a bad romantic comedy and chucking the device into a picturesque body of water. Here are three steps your author has taken recently to escape the emotional pull of constantly available information.
Turn off instant email notifications
There’s an inherent feeling of losing out if you pay for a data plan for your phone, and then don’t get notified the minute a new email comes in. But if you’re not able to actually digest an email’s contents, and react or respond in some way, you’re adding to your already burdensome inbox pile, and losing out on whatever you’re doing at the time. More to the point, to paraphrase Merlin Mann, that email almost certainly won’t give you anything serious to work with. My advice? You can keep email coming in your phone, but don’t let your phone notify you about every single message.
On an Android phone, head to the Gmail or Email app, press the Menu button (or tap the Menu icon in the upper corner on brand-new 4.0 devices), and turn off notifications. On an iPhone, head to the Settings app, scroll down to Notifications, and turn off Mail. On other phones, the process is likely similar. You can still open up your email app whenever you’re feeling bored or curious, but that choice is up to you, not whoever happens to be sending you something.